Our stuff is an externalization of ourselves in the world. It is synonymous with our ego and necessary for being here and why we form an identification - the Id. Helping our clients identify what identity a certain object(s) holds is the key to understanding why they are holding onto it. From there, coaching the client around whether questions, such as Is this an identity that is still serving you? Does it need to release or integrate? Where the client is currently challenged or feeling stuck, i.e. relationships, career, etc., gives priority of where to begin with a client.